Discriminations and Cultural Complexities: Intercultural Relations between Indian Women and the Black Population
Life is important, and so are the experiences we have. Our quality of life inevitably depends on the experiences we have on a daily basis. Today, we’re going to tackle a very interesting subject alluding to Indian women residing in the United States of America who make pertinent comments about the black population. This is a complex issue that requires careful attention. We’ll deal with it briefly first, and then I’ll give my opinion on the subject.
It’s interesting to see the different perspectives and the deep wounds that can exist. One interviewee recounted his experience with an Indian woman with whom he had become engaged. Unfortunately, her family didn’t accept her because of her skin color, and they ended up looking for a husband for her in India. This is a sad situation, because when someone asks questions in this way, they often want to start a serious conversation or check if you share the same ideas. This woman openly stated that generally, in their culture, they prefer to marry anyone but black people. They prefer to remain within their Indian culture and Hindu religion, but are particularly closed to blacks. It’s okay to marry whites, but not blacks.
The facts go even further. A woman, still Indian, who married a black man, with whom they had five children. They were happy, but unfortunately, the girl’s family completely rejected them, especially her father, who categorically refused any relationship because of his partner’s skin color. Compared to her sister, who married a white man, and whose children receive much more attention and love. Collaboration and communication between parents, i.e. grandparents and children, are completely different. This shows just how much discrimination exists between Indians and the black population.
See: Defending Sovereignty and Diplomatic Dialogue: the South African example
A complex social system
This discriminatory situation stems from the fact that there has long been a Caste system in India. In other words, populations were divided according to their social level. The social hierarchy was based on a pyramid system, headed by the Brahmins, a group of highly respected intellectuals and even priests. Next came the Kshatryia, who played the role of warriors, followed by the Sudra, servants and workers. And finally, the untouchables at the bottom of the pyramid, the most despised. This classification was based on their skin color. The brighter you are, the higher up the social hierarchy you are, the darker you are, the more despised you are. In Indian culture, this system has existed for thousands of years, but was reinforced by the English with the introduction of laws that legalized this distinction in treatment. They have also set up operations in a number of African countries.
We may never understand why black people aren’t appreciated, whether it’s in China, where they’re completely ostracized, or even in Australia, where black people are completely despised and mistreated. Black Filipinos are also completely ignored. Even in Indian films, we rarely, if ever, see black characters. Indians prefer Indian actors of all colors, while blacks are often overlooked. What’s most disturbing about this story is that these communities are openly hostile to these relationships, claiming to want to preserve their culture and adopt people who look like them and share their mentality and religion. However, if a white individual arrives, everything is accepted without a problem.
It is imperative to be respected
Let’s also note this form of hypocrisy that exists among blacks. This phenomenon is even observed within embassies. When you go to the Indian or Lebanese embassy, for example, you’ll find that the Lebanese who work there, and even some blacks recruited for administrative tasks, are the most unpleasant when it comes to applying for a visa. It’s sad to realize that. I’m convinced that it’s crucial to value everyone and put them in their rightful place, even if we advocate universal love and acceptance. It’s important to highlight this mentality, as it tends to generally devalue black individuals.
In conclusion, it’s vital to value and respect yourself within this community. Of course, if you’re in love with someone who truly loves you, then you can live your life to the fullest. However, there’s no point in desperately seeking acceptance or asking forgiveness for rejection. If a community doesn’t accept you, there’s no need to persist in looking for someone else from the same community. It would be best to find someone from your own community. Unless it’s an inferiority complex. Oh, black life! But nobody needs you. At some point, Africans, or at least some of them, clearly express their refusal of any connection with others. They don’t want Europeans to come to them. They prefer you to stay in your own country. This is how we value ourselves, and it’s a very complex situation.
Finally, is it acceptable to marry a foreigner in a community that clearly dislikes outsiders? This calls into question notions of solidarity, travel, upward mobility and pyramid communities. Is it important to go the extra mile to be liked, accepted and considered a successful person in society? We welcome your feedback.
Totally inspired by Zack Mwekassa’s video
