{"id":6993,"date":"2024-11-04T12:20:52","date_gmt":"2024-11-04T12:20:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/?p=6993"},"modified":"2024-11-04T12:35:49","modified_gmt":"2024-11-04T12:35:49","slug":"dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/","title":{"rendered":"Dignity in Need: When Restraint Prevails Over Asking"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong style=\"font-size: 22px;\">The Apparent Injustice of Financial Institutions<\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"flex max-w-full flex-col flex-grow\">\n<div class=\"min-h-8 text-message flex w-full flex-col items-end gap-2 whitespace-normal break-words [.text-message+&amp;]:mt-5\" dir=\"auto\" data-message-author-role=\"assistant\" data-message-id=\"5593749c-41f8-4afc-ab51-4981cb2ab0a4\" data-message-model-slug=\"gpt-4o\">\n<div class=\"flex w-full flex-col gap-1 empty:hidden first:pt-[3px]\">\n<div class=\"markdown prose w-full break-words dark:prose-invert light\">\n<p>In our society, it\u2019s common to hear the phrase: \u201cTo those who have, more will be given; and to those who have not, even the little they have will be taken away.\u201d At first glance, this idea may seem profoundly unfair, but it reflects a harsh reality in our world, particularly in finance.<\/p>\n<p>Banks exemplify this phenomenon. When an individual applies for a loan, financial institutions conduct an evaluation of their situation. They check if the person has a bank account, if they repay their debts on time, if they pay taxes, and assess all financial transactions. Ironically, if the applicant has limited funds, the bank is less likely to grant a loan. In fact, to lend money, banks seek signs of financial stability and solvency. This condition may seem contradictory because people apply for loans precisely because they need money.<\/p>\n<p>This paradox highlights a crucial truth: banks prefer to provide financial opportunities to those who already possess resources, reinforcing the idea that to receive more, one must already have. Conversely, those lacking adequate resources often remain excluded from banking offers and benefits.<\/p>\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_82_2 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-transparent ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #dd3333;color:#dd3333\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 eztoc-toggle-hide-by-default' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/#Preferred_Offers_and_Client_Selection\" >Preferred Offers and Client Selection<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/#Preserving_Ones_Aura_A_Choice_of_Dignity\" >Preserving One\u2019s Aura: A Choice of Dignity<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/#The_Trap_of_Negotiation_and_Self-Esteem\" >The Trap of Negotiation and Self-Esteem<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/#The_Dangers_of_Overexposing_Ones_Weaknesses\" >The Dangers of Overexposing One\u2019s Weaknesses<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/#Knowing_When_and_How_to_Ask_A_Social_Strategy\" >Knowing When and How to Ask: A Social Strategy<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/#Conclusion_Finding_the_Balance_Between_Need_and_Appearance\" >Conclusion: Finding the Balance Between Need and Appearance<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Preferred_Offers_and_Client_Selection\"><\/span>Preferred Offers and Client Selection<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>This principle of exclusivity isn\u2019t limited to banks but extends to various societal domains. More prosperous clients are frequently courted by institutions offering goods or services, like real estate or luxury financial products. These institutions directly contact them, presenting personalized offers and advantageous financing options. This creates a kind of virtuous cycle for the wealthy, while those who show less activity or financial stability remain ignored.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\" quote-light \"><p><em><strong>Read More:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/the-principles-of-strong-men-dignity-commitment-punctuality-and-independence\/\">The Principles of Strong Men: Dignity, Commitment, Punctuality, and Independence<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Preserving_Ones_Aura_A_Choice_of_Dignity\"><\/span>Preserving One\u2019s Aura: A Choice of Dignity<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<figure style=\"width: 622px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.wixstatic.com\/media\/d48d10_07826812c47b415c84ee9813ab75e870~mv2.jpg\/v1\/fill\/w_568,h_378,al_c,q_80,usm_0.66_1.00_0.01,enc_auto\/d48d10_07826812c47b415c84ee9813ab75e870~mv2.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"622\" height=\"414\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\"><em>Knowing how to preserve one\u2019s dignity even in times of extreme need<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Knowing how to maintain one\u2019s dignity, even in times of extreme need, can be more important than seeking help. A poorly placed request, or one directed to the wrong person, can undermine self-esteem or the image others have of us. In times of need, it\u2019s better to carefully select whom to approach, as a rejected request can impact both self-esteem and the perception one projects.<\/p>\n<p>Additionally, sometimes revealing one\u2019s lack or figurative \u201chunger\u201d can weaken one\u2019s social position. In some situations, keeping one\u2019s needs private serves to preserve personal aura and avoids vulnerability. At times, silence and quietly enduring difficulties can be preferable to risking a diminished reputation in the eyes of others.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Trap_of_Negotiation_and_Self-Esteem\"><\/span>The Trap of Negotiation and Self-Esteem<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Another often misunderstood aspect in society is negotiation in specific contexts. In certain places, negotiation is frowned upon. For instance, if someone enters a luxury store, or even a more typical place, negotiating the price can be perceived as a sign of weakness. This drastically changes others\u2019 perceptions. People present might whisper about them, interpreting their actions as a sign of limited means. This scenario illustrates how someone\u2019s aura can be altered by behaviors that seem trivial at first glance.<\/p>\n<p>In the case of purchasing high-end items, like a luxury car such as a Ferrari or Bugatti, the buyer sometimes has to meet specific criteria to be accepted. These brands skip advertising and prefer to reserve their products for those deemed \u201cworthy\u201d to own them. Here, money isn\u2019t the only factor; image, status, and aura also play a crucial role.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\" quote-light \"><p><em><strong>Read More:\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/learning-to-protect-oneself-lessons-from-a-life-of-silent-success\/\">Learning to Protect Oneself: Lessons from a Life of Silent Success<\/a><\/strong><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Dangers_of_Overexposing_Ones_Weaknesses\"><\/span>The Dangers of Overexposing One\u2019s Weaknesses<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<figure style=\"width: 3000px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.f1g.fr\/media\/cms\/3000x2000_crop\/2023\/02\/14\/fc4508ee0a03802d1175d4b3e9afd992a2cce815b610986de012b87548fde15a.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"3000\" height=\"2000\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Sometimes it is better to keep our suffering deep within ourselves<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>In this society of appearances, how we express our needs or expectations has a direct impact on others\u2019 opinions. Exposing oneself openly in hopes of receiving help, especially when that help isn\u2019t guaranteed, can be seen as a sign of weakness or dependence. Often, silently enduring suffering is preferable, as it preserves the image of strength and dignity one wishes to project.<\/p>\n<p>The conclusion of this philosophy, which may seem harsh, is that under certain conditions, it\u2019s better to suffer in silence rather than openly display vulnerability without assurance of support or comfort. This approach preserves a form of respect, both for oneself and in the eyes of others. Those seeking assistance should carefully choose whom to approach and ensure they are addressing people they trust.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Knowing_When_and_How_to_Ask_A_Social_Strategy\"><\/span>Knowing When and How to Ask: A Social Strategy<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>Knowing whom to ask is a crucial social skill, often overlooked. It\u2019s essential to remember that any request made indiscriminately risks rejection, which affects not only others\u2019 perceptions but also self-esteem. Asking targeted, trustworthy people is a way to preserve one\u2019s aura and protect oneself from negative responses that could tarnish one\u2019s self-image.<\/p>\n<h3><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Conclusion_Finding_the_Balance_Between_Need_and_Appearance\"><\/span>Conclusion: Finding the Balance Between Need and Appearance<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n<p>This reflection on aura, appearance, and others&#8217; perceptions reminds us that in our society, image plays a crucial role. Financial institutions, social relationships, and even the act of asking are governed by unspoken rules that influence how we see others and behave. In this logic, it\u2019s sometimes necessary to withhold requests and endure silently to preserve dignity and respect, as the aura we project can be an asset in a world where perceptions hold significant importance.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In our society, it\u2019s common to hear the phrase: \u201cTo those who have, more will be given; and to those who have not, even the little they have will be taken away.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":6991,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1870,1470],"tags":[2440,2438,1777,2441,2439,2437,1855,2004,2442,2162],"class_list":["post-6993","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-book","category-life","tag-appearances","tag-bank-loans","tag-dignity","tag-finances-en","tag-necessity","tag-request","tag-respect-en","tag-self-confidence","tag-silence-en","tag-society"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v23.7 (Yoast SEO v27.5) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-premium-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Dignity in Need: When Restraint Prevails Over Asking - Zack Mwekassa<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"In our society, it\u2019s common to hear the phrase: \u201cTo those who have, more will be given; and to those who have not, even the little they have will be taken away.\u201d\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Dignity in Need: When Restraint Prevails Over Asking\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"In our society, it\u2019s common to hear the phrase: \u201cTo those who have, more will be given; and to those who have not, even the little they have will be taken away.\u201d\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Zack Mwekassa\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:author\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/zackmwekassa0\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2024-11-04T12:20:52+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2024-11-04T12:35:49+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/mendier.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"300\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"200\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Reports\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:description\" content=\"In our society, it\u2019s common to hear the phrase: \u201cTo those who have, more will be given; and to those who have not, even the little they have will be taken away.\u201d\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:creator\" content=\"@https:\/\/www.twitter.com\/zackmwekassa0\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Reports\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"5 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\\\/\\\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/en\\\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\\\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/en\\\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\\\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"Reports\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/16020c21d5718ee21c6580fe71b5ad9f\"},\"headline\":\"Dignity in Need: When Restraint Prevails Over Asking\",\"datePublished\":\"2024-11-04T12:20:52+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2024-11-04T12:35:49+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/en\\\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\\\/\"},\"wordCount\":890,\"commentCount\":0,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/#organization\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/en\\\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2024\\\/11\\\/mendier.jpg\",\"keywords\":[\"appearances\",\"bank loans\",\"Dignity\",\"finances\",\"necessity\",\"request\",\"Respect\",\"Self-confidence\",\"silence\",\"society\"],\"articleSection\":[\"Book\",\"Life\"],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"CommentAction\",\"name\":\"Comment\",\"target\":[\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/en\\\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\\\/#respond\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/en\\\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\\\/\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/en\\\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\\\/\",\"name\":\"Dignity in Need: When Restraint Prevails Over Asking - Zack Mwekassa\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/#website\"},\"primaryImageOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/en\\\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/en\\\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2024\\\/11\\\/mendier.jpg\",\"datePublished\":\"2024-11-04T12:20:52+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2024-11-04T12:35:49+00:00\",\"description\":\"In our society, it\u2019s common to hear the phrase: \u201cTo those who have, more will be given; and to those who have not, even the little they have will be taken away.\u201d\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/en\\\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\\\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/en\\\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\\\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/en\\\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\\\/#primaryimage\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2024\\\/11\\\/mendier.jpg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2024\\\/11\\\/mendier.jpg\",\"width\":300,\"height\":200,\"caption\":\"Between Image and Self-Esteem: The Challenge of Choices and Requests in a Society of Perceptions.\"},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/en\\\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\\\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Accueil\",\"item\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/en\\\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"Dignity in Need: When Restraint Prevails Over Asking\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/\",\"name\":\"Zack Mwekassa\",\"description\":\"Le guerrier noir, votre fr\u00e8re !\",\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/#organization\"},\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":{\"@type\":\"PropertyValueSpecification\",\"valueRequired\":true,\"valueName\":\"search_term_string\"}}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":[\"Organization\",\"Place\"],\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/#organization\",\"name\":\"Zack Mwekassa\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/\",\"logo\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/en\\\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\\\/#local-main-organization-logo\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/en\\\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\\\/#local-main-organization-logo\"},\"telephone\":[],\"openingHoursSpecification\":[{\"@type\":\"OpeningHoursSpecification\",\"dayOfWeek\":[\"Monday\",\"Tuesday\",\"Wednesday\",\"Thursday\",\"Friday\",\"Saturday\",\"Sunday\"],\"opens\":\"09:00\",\"closes\":\"17:00\"}]},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/16020c21d5718ee21c6580fe71b5ad9f\",\"name\":\"Reports\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/9ffa1dfb2a3e36f2dee2ea1639176308c4cfdfe65f9422051ff3e19478b65d54?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/9ffa1dfb2a3e36f2dee2ea1639176308c4cfdfe65f9422051ff3e19478b65d54?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/9ffa1dfb2a3e36f2dee2ea1639176308c4cfdfe65f9422051ff3e19478b65d54?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"Reports\"},\"description\":\"D\u00e9couvrez le passionnant monde des articles pr\u00e9sent\u00e9s par Zack Mwekassa, une figure embl\u00e9matique de la boxe et du kickboxing ! Plongez-vous dans un univers captivant o\u00f9 chaque texte est une fen\u00eatre ouverte sur des sujets vari\u00e9s, allant de la g\u00e9opolitique africaine aux questions de vie et de soci\u00e9t\u00e9.\",\"sameAs\":[\"https:\\\/\\\/www.facebook.com\\\/zackmwekassa0\",\"https:\\\/\\\/www.instagram.com\\\/zackmwekassa0\",\"https:\\\/\\\/x.com\\\/https:\\\/\\\/www.twitter.com\\\/zackmwekassa0\",\"https:\\\/\\\/www.youtube.com\\\/@zackmwekassamotivation4525\",\"https:\\\/\\\/en.wikipedia.org\\\/wiki\\\/Zack_Mwekassa\"],\"gender\":\"homme\",\"award\":[\"Champion Kick Boxing\"],\"knowsAbout\":[\"Investissement\"],\"knowsLanguage\":[\"Fran\u00e7ais\",\"Anglais\",\"Congo\"],\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/en\\\/author\\\/reports\\\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/en\\\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\\\/#local-main-organization-logo\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2023\\\/06\\\/cropped-zack-mwekassa-icon.png\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/zackmwekassa.org\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2023\\\/06\\\/cropped-zack-mwekassa-icon.png\",\"width\":1920,\"height\":652,\"caption\":\"Zack Mwekassa\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO Premium plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"Dignity in Need: When Restraint Prevails Over Asking - Zack Mwekassa","description":"In our society, it\u2019s common to hear the phrase: \u201cTo those who have, more will be given; and to those who have not, even the little they have will be taken away.\u201d","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/","og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"Dignity in Need: When Restraint Prevails Over Asking","og_description":"In our society, it\u2019s common to hear the phrase: \u201cTo those who have, more will be given; and to those who have not, even the little they have will be taken away.\u201d","og_url":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/","og_site_name":"Zack Mwekassa","article_author":"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/zackmwekassa0","article_published_time":"2024-11-04T12:20:52+00:00","article_modified_time":"2024-11-04T12:35:49+00:00","og_image":[{"width":300,"height":200,"url":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/mendier.jpg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"author":"Reports","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_description":"In our society, it\u2019s common to hear the phrase: \u201cTo those who have, more will be given; and to those who have not, even the little they have will be taken away.\u201d","twitter_creator":"@https:\/\/www.twitter.com\/zackmwekassa0","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"Reports","Est. reading time":"5 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/"},"author":{"name":"Reports","@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/#\/schema\/person\/16020c21d5718ee21c6580fe71b5ad9f"},"headline":"Dignity in Need: When Restraint Prevails Over Asking","datePublished":"2024-11-04T12:20:52+00:00","dateModified":"2024-11-04T12:35:49+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/"},"wordCount":890,"commentCount":0,"publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/#organization"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/mendier.jpg","keywords":["appearances","bank loans","Dignity","finances","necessity","request","Respect","Self-confidence","silence","society"],"articleSection":["Book","Life"],"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"CommentAction","name":"Comment","target":["https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/#respond"]}]},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/","url":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/","name":"Dignity in Need: When Restraint Prevails Over Asking - Zack Mwekassa","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/#website"},"primaryImageOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/#primaryimage"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/mendier.jpg","datePublished":"2024-11-04T12:20:52+00:00","dateModified":"2024-11-04T12:35:49+00:00","description":"In our society, it\u2019s common to hear the phrase: \u201cTo those who have, more will be given; and to those who have not, even the little they have will be taken away.\u201d","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/"]}]},{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/#primaryimage","url":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/mendier.jpg","contentUrl":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/mendier.jpg","width":300,"height":200,"caption":"Between Image and Self-Esteem: The Challenge of Choices and Requests in a Society of Perceptions."},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Accueil","item":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"Dignity in Need: When Restraint Prevails Over Asking"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/#website","url":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/","name":"Zack Mwekassa","description":"Le guerrier noir, votre fr\u00e8re !","publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/#organization"},"potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":["Organization","Place"],"@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/#organization","name":"Zack Mwekassa","url":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/","logo":{"@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/#local-main-organization-logo"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/#local-main-organization-logo"},"telephone":[],"openingHoursSpecification":[{"@type":"OpeningHoursSpecification","dayOfWeek":["Monday","Tuesday","Wednesday","Thursday","Friday","Saturday","Sunday"],"opens":"09:00","closes":"17:00"}]},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/#\/schema\/person\/16020c21d5718ee21c6580fe71b5ad9f","name":"Reports","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9ffa1dfb2a3e36f2dee2ea1639176308c4cfdfe65f9422051ff3e19478b65d54?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9ffa1dfb2a3e36f2dee2ea1639176308c4cfdfe65f9422051ff3e19478b65d54?s=96&d=mm&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9ffa1dfb2a3e36f2dee2ea1639176308c4cfdfe65f9422051ff3e19478b65d54?s=96&d=mm&r=g","caption":"Reports"},"description":"D\u00e9couvrez le passionnant monde des articles pr\u00e9sent\u00e9s par Zack Mwekassa, une figure embl\u00e9matique de la boxe et du kickboxing ! Plongez-vous dans un univers captivant o\u00f9 chaque texte est une fen\u00eatre ouverte sur des sujets vari\u00e9s, allant de la g\u00e9opolitique africaine aux questions de vie et de soci\u00e9t\u00e9.","sameAs":["https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/zackmwekassa0","https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/zackmwekassa0","https:\/\/x.com\/https:\/\/www.twitter.com\/zackmwekassa0","https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@zackmwekassamotivation4525","https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Zack_Mwekassa"],"gender":"homme","award":["Champion Kick Boxing"],"knowsAbout":["Investissement"],"knowsLanguage":["Fran\u00e7ais","Anglais","Congo"],"url":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/author\/reports\/"},{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/dignity-in-need-when-restraint-prevails-over-asking\/#local-main-organization-logo","url":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/cropped-zack-mwekassa-icon.png","contentUrl":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/cropped-zack-mwekassa-icon.png","width":1920,"height":652,"caption":"Zack Mwekassa"}]}},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/mendier.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6993","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6993"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6993\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6995,"href":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6993\/revisions\/6995"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6991"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6993"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6993"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zackmwekassa.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6993"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}